
Hate hidden in a kinsman's heart will cause
many miseries, and more--it will kill a man.
When hatred arises, dissension destroys unity,
and men fall inescapably toward ever-ready death.
-Tirukkural 885-886
I was thinking about this one in terms of my inability to express in a timely manner that I'm annoyed, angry or feel hurt by someone's words or actions. I'm working really hard on this one -- even if all I do is say, "That hurt," or "wow, that makes me really angry," -- even if nothing comes of it, I find that just stating it outloud _to_ the person makes for clearer communication and the ability to continue to be friends.
He is dear to me who runs not after the pleasant or away from the painful, grieves not, lusts not, but lets things come and go as they happen.
-Bhagavad Gita 12:17
I'm not so sure on this one. I _do_ avoid them, or mostly run away. I had a situation recently that made me laugh so hard -- where it was something I'd been wanting, needing, and when it came, I ran away!
I think this one means that while we should have ambition and focus on goals, that there should be moderation and an non-attachment on the results of the goals.
This one is ALSO tough. I have a goal to LOSE WEIGHT -- so that I'll feel better, sexier, stronger as well as the health benefits of being fit and leaner.
Hrm. bed time